Until a while ago I hadn't actually considered how much a woman (conciously) use game as well. Obviously they don't use the same techniques as men and they have different end goals (eg. recruiting men for validation/excitement).
A girl at my job, who's in a LTR and who I still work with today, had manipulated me into a oneitis 4 years ago. The confusion and depression that followed was so immense, I couldn't understand what was going on. "does she like me?", "should I make a move?", "cant be though... but she's giving me all these signs!". I was very much game unaware and blue pilled.
Lets call her style the "introverted black widow style":
In that moment, it was soul crushing to be kept into orbit like that. These woman know our biological instincts very well and use it against us just as ruthlessly as some pickup artists are claimed to do.
Eventually I spilled my beta feelings on here, completely turning her off. I was kicked out of her orbit. Disbelief and depression followed. I found TRP, learned game, fitness, read books etc... Over a 2 year period my SMV steadily increased till a point where I suddenly entered a new realm of existence. Now, random men on the street greet me on a consistent basis (as a beta, strangers hardly ever did this). I experience girls frantically giggling just by looking at them quite regularly. There's a (rather dumb) slutty party girl at my job asking me out every single week, pubicly. etc...
Back to the girl who gave me oneitis. She obviously noticed my increased SMV. She had also experienced some of the game techniques I had learned giving her the "tingles" (she called it 'like being on heroin') and she tried to lure me back into her orbit, maybe more. At this point however she expected me to no longer work as an oxytocine generator but as a dopamine bot. She expected me to be fun and outgoing and manly all the time and she would give me a hard time when I wasn't creating these emotions (eg. flirting with other guys, stalking me to events where she would bring her boyfriend to induce a jealous reaction from me, being bitchy in general).
The problem is... this is a workplace situation. Girls don't just go back to "acting normal" after stirring up so many emotions. You can't flatout tell them to "fuck off, leave me alone" and expect them to go back to friendly coworker mode the next week. Believe me, I've tried going that direction. It's not just desire which you can't negotiate. Jealousy, bitch attitude, passive agressiveness, machiavellian trickery... etc... it's not someting I want to deal with when I should be focusing on my job. Currently I'm learning more and more how to enforce boundaries and manage (other people's) emotions better. My workplace situation is currently stabilized, but I could've seen it go wrong in so many different ugly ways without the knowledge on this subreddit.
If this shit has happened to me, it must be going on for so many other men out there as well... scary.