This has nothing to do with her being an adult. That is completely besides the point. Clearly you are unaware of other people's feelings and the way a real mother is supposed to protect their children. Her behavior is so foul and your shitty opinion isn't going to convince me that this is really shitty parenting from my mom. Once someone decides to have a child that child should be her number one priority to love and take care of. A mother should be a role model. To say she is an adult thinking this makes it all okay and that I should act like I don't already know, that it's my responsibility to just ignore it is so ignorant. Sounds like your parents are worse than mine.