Bizarre behavior?

I definitely wasn’t rude about it. It was a dating app situation and I can’t remember the exact time period but my guess is that I started seeing someone around the same time. But I know he wasn’t coming full speed pursuing me or I would’ve remembered.

It was a light conversation on the app and he found my social media and added me externally which sketched me out at first and the conversation died. We have since remained “friends” but he’s never contacted me there, interacted with anything I’ve posted nor explained why he added me. Of course after accepting the request I would’ve been receptive if he messaged me.

I could understand not being sure if I was interested but I clearly had been swiping right and this last time, was enthusiastic in the conversation and he unmatched me almost immediately. I’m not upset I just don’t really get that sequence of events and wanted to see if anyone had insight

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