Black people like you use the n-word as a way to try to control people of other races

Not true. It was a word used in slaves times and then stupidly someone decided to use "nigga" as slang.

When a black guy attacks a white guy for saying the n-word, it's never because his "feelings" were incredibly hurt, it's just an excuse to beat up a white person

It's probably because his feelings were hurt. You wont hurt my feelings but it'd urk and annoy me.

, because black people don't like white people anyways and think that they're justified in exacting "revenge" on them

Don't take everything you read on 4chan or whereever you're getting this rhetoric from literally, you're most likely reading shit from trolls and larps. Some whites dont like blacks, some blacks dont like whites. It'll always be that way because humans are tribal creatures.