She blamed the incident on anxiety

Right I actually meant to respond to the comment above yours but I accidentally replied to you, and I just read your comment now. Yeah I didn't watch the video (or see your comment), so maybe my discussion doesn't really fit here.

But this is a reoccurring thing that I've seen on Reddit I guess and I usually bring it up when I think its relevant. The reason being that if you are to tell this person "Wtf you're racist, you're a piece of shit" then they get defensive and instead of actually reflecting on what they did wrong they just deny the fact they're racist. Instead, if you were to tell them "You are a horrible person that will resort to racial slurs when you're angry", then they really have no defense. That's obviously in an ideal world since the type of person to throw around the n-word probably isn't the type of person to listen to reason, but I still think its an important thing to think about in the grand scheme of things.

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