His dad is literally excluding her kids every other weekend but isn’t doing anything to give them special treatment. That’s so fucked up of him. He’s just making them feel unspecial. They’re kids of divorce too. They matter too. My kids are not being hurt in my own home to make another kid a priority and make him feel special BY EXCLUDING my kids. You being married doesn’t mean anything. Try being a child that went through that unfair treatment. You sound like a self centered loser. You know nothing about children of divorce you’re just trying to defend this kid because you’re putting YOUR kids in his shoes and don’t like the scenario because you want your kids to have special treatment which is all fine and dandy until it fucks with other children going through the same shit. If you’re fine with your kids having unfair treatment to make another kid feel special, that’s on you. I would be upset if my mother tolerated that. But this mom loves her kids and is sad they don’t get the same treatment in their own home. My step dad would take his son out to do fun things and not do a single thing for us. They would come home with ice cream sad be happy. I would be crying wondering why I wasn’t enough. Why I couldn’t go do that stuff. My mom stood up for me but that was a jackass shitty thing for my dad to do and it wasn’t wrong that my mom was upset. Parents can be upset when their children are being hurt by others actions.