She used to come in when she'd be in town. Hell, we let her stay here a few times to save money on her trip but mark my words-never.again. She stole, caused drama, laid around drinking my wine- forgivable- but the worst was the last time she was allowed in the house- screaming accusations that I was the cause of her terrible relationship with her kids and the cause of their damaged mental health, like this woman wanted to lay hands on me- in front of the kids. Since then she has apologized, tried to make amends in her own insincere way but some things can't be recovered from. I could be in the same room with her and be fine (can't speak for her) but I want nothing to do with her, will not speak to her and she is not welcome in the sacred space of our home.