Let me be clear; a high body count will not disqualify you from a good man but it will disqualify you from a good man long term.

I’m speaking as a bloke here so salt to taste.

If you want to get a guy whose actually interested in you and not a sausage sneeze you need to look like it. How do you do this? Well first thing is appearance. Do you wear makeup? Are you going full doll face! Do you show cleavage/clothes tight on your breasts?

Where do you go to meet guys? What do you look like when they first see you? Are you professional and put together, or are you wearing a skirt that shows your butt crease?

Finally don’t offer sex until you’re “official”. There will be a lot of guys who check out as a consequence, fuck them, that’s their problem. You need to show that you’re something to be worked for, if you’re an attractive women, very attractive men will respect that and pay attention to the signal.