bored after moving in

We do spend time talking/cuddling/telling each other's jokes etc. We do grocery and household chores together. The two of us are also different people. We both are serious, goal oriented people. But I like Ted talks/psychology/meaningful movies related podcasts and he likes jokes/video games/comedy movies. So we don't watch tv together. Recently, we have started to spend our alone time. Example, he plays his video games and movies in living room and I'm in bedroom watching my type of stuff. I think it's helpful? As at least we get to enjoy our stuff seperately. But I just don't do the things I used to do anymore (Ted x talks, etc) because idn why. I can never "feel" seperated from him since we live in a tinny place. I know he isn't into Ted x stuff so I don't watch them. He has told me many times I should watch it by myself but I can never "feel" by myself.

When he goes out for walks I love that time lol. I can feel alone and I'm never bored. When he comes back home we hug and tell each other we missed each other.

This is all so new to me. Do you have any thoughts?

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