i was born with a rare defect/some kind of disease? and it has effected my mental well being all my life

Thank you for sharing I really enjoyed your post!!

From This Moment forward, you are the Universe...

     °Self__*__Define°

Will.. is not a promise... Will Is POWER

    **WILLPOWER**

°is your new special interest! Attract willpower into your life. Creating incentive develops willingness; thus creating opportunities to benefit the power of will!

Self-empowerment* Define your self-worth... If you can define your self-worth, you empowered to a otherwise , subject of intreinterpretation..

Self- Create a special space, in a private place. Make it comfortable, add lighting and set up a full length mirror. In this space, nothing and noone else matters. Cut off the world and remove toxic elements from this space. Yeah, ur little phone too...!;)

Be willing to uphold the integrity of self respect.
Keep in mind; your efforts set the standards, to be upheld by the will of others, worthy of access into your life. Disrespect must never be tolerated.

Become an opportunist, keep it simple. Congratulate urself for every positive move u make. In fact, praise every move you ever make, here on out! Enjoy doing what you chose to do. Respect and acccept your choices. Cause YOU made them and you come first. If at any time you realize you're not enjoying yourself, refocus back onto yourself. Make plans and goals for gain, not for recovery of losses. The value in your achievements are priceless, completely dependent upon your willingness to claim it's value.

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