But you said it's tempting........okay let's get this goose cooked. First off. A toxic relationship is when you stay with a person who cheated on you and completely disregarded your feelings when making that decision while betraying the trust of the relationship. A toxic relationship is when you constantly have things going wrong and have to stress yourself in order to make the relationship work(therapy, Reddit, etc.....) A toxic relationship is when you make excuses for your partner who isn't catering to your needs and the relationship but as soon as someone calls your partner out all of a sudden you're on their side again. Make up your mind, because if your partner saw all this he'd drop you in a heart beat and go back to the girl he cheated on you with. Don't ever ask for advice again if all you're gonna do is criticize what people are suggesting when IN REALITY they're sharing what they've gone through themselves, coped, and healed in the process. Have a goodnight, Not a dude btw.