Boyfriend (23M) said that I (21F) stick my nose into his business too much

If one of you sets a standard for a boundary or thing that’s allowed in the relationship, the road goes both ways every time.

That's bullshit. A relationship is about the wants of a partner not about everything being equal.

If you like to give oral and don't like to receive oral and your partner likes both the solution isn't to never give / receive oral (equality). It is you do the thing both of you enjoy and don't do the thing one doesn't enjoy.

If you give your partner a small random gift that doesn't mean your partner has to give you back a small random gift. Especially considering difference in love languages. You want an appropriate reaction that fits your language instead the pure equal action.

If OP is fine with him looking at her phone, since she has different privacy standards that is completely fine.

Only after OP tells him he shouldn't look at her phone and he still insists on doing so her bf would be a hypocrite.

The thing that I find really strange is him deleting stuff before he hands it to her.

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