Porn is okay within moderation, but I know firsthand how this feels. It sounds to me like he has a serious problem. If he doesn’t start trying to gain control over this, it will keep ruining his relationships and ability to truly connect with you. This is so much immaturity on his part. You don’t deserve to be made to feel second choice. I don’t really care if your pregnant or have gained weight, if he loves you he should make more of an effort and communicate his needs. Also, like it sounds to me like sex to him is more about his fulfillment. Sad because it’s a two way street, and I’m sure there are things you would like he can’t always do too. He’s got to rewire his brain to not view girls as these personal pets that are just like objects. Because that’s what porn addiction does. doesn’t make him a bad person but it’s true. So this is really uncool of him. Like a whole reddit account just for it? That’s insane.