boyfriend claims to be supportive, but probably isn't

It sounds like you haven't tried to work with him. One day you said "we're going to have barely any sex from this point on. Don't like it? Fuck off."

You both have a daughter. He leaves you, he leaves the kid. unless you're willing to give up custody, saying "you can leave" isn't true, he may want to leave you but not the kid. If you have custody he ain't seeing that kid half as much.

Why does the fact you've suddenly learnt a new word change anything in the first place? You've always been the way you are, yet you still had sex before, so what's actually changed?

He just sounds fed up that you've just destroyed the relationship, the relationship was founded on the fact that sex was a part of it, I seriously doubt he would've bothered if you couldn't satisfy his needs then. And then you Seem to take the moral high ground...

If you don't want to have sex with him that's completely your right, but you don't have the moral high ground. He has needs and you entered the relationship understanding that and taking up that duty and now you're saying no.

You're obviously going to get a very biased answer from this sub reddit though, so it's not the smartest place to post unless you're just looking for people to agree with you.

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