Boyfriend is Drinking Again

So, I was just screamed at tonight for:

Got together with guy, dui from the jump. Should've ran then...and not his first.

Dumb me thinks oh, for sure with that pending, no drinking. Wrong. Drinks. No license. Drives. Drives drunk. This goes on for 10 months. Worst ever situation EVER.

Finally, he gets sentenced, goes to jail. We haven't spoken by that time...he's was a mean cheating alcoholic.

Ok. Fast forward. He tries to call me on release. I ignore, too soon.

I reach out a month later..hes sober. Duh. Hes on probation now so for sure, needs to be sober! That was his umpteenth dui, hes lucky hes out of prison so soon. (I was a part of his presentence investigation so I had to be honest with them, wasn't good for him).

Anyway, he has that resentment about what I said for his pre sentence...but said he got over it. He was angry but got past it.

Soooooo..... we were taking for 3 weeks. He was sober, same sweet guy but I was hesitant. He started the wave up and down, likes me then not then ok then not. Mood swings...ugh.

Well, I was to see him this weekend. We both bailed, mostly him. But then, he called me tonight and DRUNK AS SKUNK. Screaming at me that I'm a snitch and all this bs.... drunk. On probation.

Moral of story?

Nothing. Nothing. Nothing. Can stop them. He could get locked up for years for this, guess he doesn't care...no. because the booze is so powerful. The drink matters more.

I was so heartbroken when I heard him drunk, hes a mean mFer when drunk. .. he doesn't have sense so who knows where he will end up tonight.

Well. It won't get better. They need to want it.

Yes. Go to al non.

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