Boyfriend keeps trying to “upgrade” or “improve” me by calling me chubby

Your height and weight are perfectly healthy! You do not need to lose 15 pounds to look good or be healthy! The things he's saying to you are way over the line. Honestly, I don't think it's cool for him to comment on your weight at all, but the way he's doing it is just vicious.

How ripped is he? How would he feel if you sent him pictures of body builders and athletes and told him he needs to bulk up? That he would be happier with himself if he were more muscular? That you and he both agreed he needed to work on his biceps? Gimme a fucking break.

There are so many decent men out there who will be into you exactly how you are.

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