I haven't cajoled him. She dropped the kids off with the claim that she can't afford them. She has assistance through the government for insurance and other things so it's fairly likely she has assistance for the children as she does not work. It is not a wild assumption. she hasn't given him any support but she expects him to keep both kids. This doesn't seem to be a choice that he has made on his own volition he has admitted that he only feels guilty because she called him a deadbeat if he doesn't raise the children. I'm not sure why you would be twisting this to make me the bad guy.
He suddenly has two kids that are not his and is being guilted into raising them. I've already said that it's not that I don't like children and I would fully accept them if they were his children. It's very apparent you only skimmed my post. We didn't discuss the children because when they separated they were with her.. He also knew they weren't his children so we had no reason to discuss having these children when we started dating it only became an issue when she suddenly dropped the children off. I'm not sure why you're convinced he should raise these children and trying to paint me in a bad light. If you want to believe that I'm just trying to ruin his life that's your choice.