3. Boyfriend of two years is in over $350,000.00 debt, maxed out five credit card, ...

Boyfriend of two years is in over $350,000.00 debt, maxed out five credit card, and has -$500.00 in his bank account...

Ugh I'm so glad you posted before me because I was about to post the same thing.

I supported my boyfriend while he lived with me for two and a half years and didn't work really. So I paid rent, got groceries, all the bills while he was "interning" and living of his yearly inheritance. Mind you I'm like 10k in debt myself and live paycheck to paycheck and thought having my boyfriend live with me would help me pay that off since people usually split shit in relationships.

So then he finally got a great job across the effing country!

His uber account got suspended because he's an idiot so I let him use mine a couple of times when he was running late or something because hey we're in a relationship and what's yours is mine has been my mindset because I'm madly in love with this fucking idiot. He then began using it like everyday about three weeks ago and actually paid me back for some of it.

So then my birthday was last week, I use my birthday money to catch up on all my bills finally and get on track finally and save some money since you know IM THE FUCKING IDIOT THATS PLANNING ON QUITTING MY JOB, GETTING RID OF MY DOG, THROWING EVERYTHING AWAY, LEAVING MY FAMILY, AND MOVING ACROSS THE COUNTRY TO BE WITH THE FUCKING IDIOT.

anyways, I open my bank account because how dare I decide to go grocery shopping for the weekend, and I have only $37 in there!!!! Because $250 has been spent on fucking ubers!! Like fuck, how dare I get groceries and maybe actually use my birthday money on a gift for myself. Also I haven't gone out by myself really since my bf moved 4 months ago so I thought I'd go have a drink tonight. Which he encouraged me to go out since I spend my weekends on the couch. How the heck can I have a drink or try to enjoy myself if I could barely get groceries! (Ok thank God it was pay day and I had $40 in cash, but what if it wasn't??!)

These assholes will run us dry

And yes you deserve so much better. It's not even about the whole man should take care of woman crap. They're just asshole selfish jerks who somehow get lucky and stuck with people who care for them so they take full advantage of that

Ps. I'm sorry. I'm really angry! To the point I was shaking the whole drive home and I had a glass of wine when I got home and I just had to vent. Sorry.

I really don't even know how to bring this up without ripping his head off since two weeks ago I had $10 in my bank because of the damn ubers. I just want to change the password or cancel his rides while he's on them. Sooo angry right now.

Again sorry everyone. I'm probably gonna be stuck at home all weekend with no one but my dog to talk to while my bf will not talk to me because he's busy getting drunk.

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