If you pull 100 women in the street what a real man is, 90 of them will repeat something that denies men any semblance of concrete identity rooted in masculine. "Every man should be able to do what he wants" and other bs answers like "every man is a real man!" Or they'll spin it as if what it is to be a man is to serve women. "A real man takes care of his women" it's this simple. They don't want masculinity to be an identity because they know dominant masculinity IS natural, but they're unwilling to encourage it. So they define us in absurd fragments and root for our demise whenever one of us assembles a whole or nearly whole masculine character. God forbid a short Male bee resentful of rejection. God forbid a man learns to stand up for himself.