BP: How did your past failed relationships go wrong?

  1. > 1 year; roughly 10mos.

  2. I did.

  3. So many reasons, and if I'm being truthful though the main reason it was because I was really starting to get the feeling I was a stepping stone. As in, he was dating me but still had his eye toward other opportunities and was hoping to one day "upgrade".

  • He hadn't been in many relationships in the past and rarely got attention from women, least of all attractive, younger women. I got the impression he thought my desire to date him meant his luck had turned and dating young, attractive women would be his "new normal". He ceased to put in any effort and was taking me for granted.

  • The secondary reasons were a) there was a near decade age gap between us and our interests greatly differed. He wasn't very adventurous (see: boring) meanwhile I craved doing new, exciting things. He made me boring too. I actually wound up losing a lot of friends because of how much of a homebody I became. I still haven't bounced back to being the fun girl I used to be.

-4. 0%. Lol no, I guess I'd say about 50%

-5. Nothing. Because I have self-respect, I'm not in the business of hanging onto a man who - consciously or unconsciously - thinks he can do better. I let him go so he could find out what was out there in the dating arena once more.

-6. No, never. We would have sex daily, more likely than not twice a day and on weekends or off days it would be double or triple or otherwise fooling around.


  1. 1 year; 15mos to be exact.

  2. Me.

  3. He cheated. Prolifically. He stuck his dick into anything with two legs and a mouth. He cheated like he was told we were going into a pussy prohibition. Ugly chicks, older women, fat chicks, single moms... He cheated all up and down the California coast like a sailor on shore leave. I even think he fucked around with his roommate. Ugh.

  4. 0%. Yes, zero mother fucking percent.

  5. Not a damn thing. Given that I lacked the ability to shapeshift into other women at random, there was absolutely nothing I could have done to prevent his cheating. And yes, we had sex often and no I never turned him down.

  6. Only during the times he went back to visit family in his home country over school breaks or for special occasions.

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