That is definitely not what I said. I said that the reason I made this post was about my feelings. You have no idea that the majority of my time is spent focusing on how Im affecting him. It is not healthy to leave for someone else’s good. It’s their job to assert themselves. I’m not a narcissist lmao, you know nothing about me. I absolutely do affect him and I wish I didn’t, but I will not leave a relationship on someone else’s behalf. Honestly, you sound like you just hate people with BPD and I don’t need that toxicity and ableism. If he needs to leave for his sake he can. I’m focusing right now on whether I should leave for my sake. Please don’t attack my character or my love for him.