Maybe work on a schedule on when he can play. I know some friends who do this. Woman crave attention. Men don’t. Maybe find something you guys can enjoy together? Hobbies. Maybe ask him why he plays so much? Root cause.
He may have gotten complacent in the relationship. It’s very common. When living with someone. However you are not his maid. So he should take action and do his part. Don’t fantasize on what you could be having. Try not to compare your life/relationship to others. Relationships are work. Once the honeymoon phase ends the real relationship begins. And it takes a lot of forgiveness to stay in one. Change doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process. It takes a lot of time and patience.
Then again if you feel all is lost then do what’s best for you.