You are totally right if lives aren’t compatible then it’s just not gonna work.. which is how I feel w this guy (there is a part of me that’s not sure — maybe I do want kids? That’s the main dealbreaker, which is huge....)so yea.

When you said you regretted it immediately afterward (breaking up in your prev relationship) but then ultimately did not regret it, that gives me hope.. like it makes sense that I’m regretting my choice right now simply bcuz it’s still so fresh... thank you for your insight it really helped me ... I feel more at ease .. I’m just going to go with the flow.. gonna take some time to fig out what I really want... thank u!!