Hey OP, I have actual experience with this. I have Poland Syndrome, and when I hit puberty my right breast grew to a HHH, while my left never grew beyond an A. I got surgery at 17, and I'm now 30; I got a reduction on my right and augmentation on my left and I now sit at a DD with one natural, one implant.

My highschool boyfriend loved me before my surgery, and he loved me after.

The guy I dated between highschool and college loved me and loved my chest.

My college boyfriend loved me and loved my chest.

My now partner, the one I'm going to grow old with, loves me dearly, and loves my chest just as much. He knows I'll need a second surgery (right reduction and augmentation so that I match up one day after age catches up with only one of my boobs) and he suggested we set up a small fund to save for it.

Have I dated douchebags who didn't like my body? Sure. But the one thing the men it all worked out for any significant period of time had in common is respect, and that they didn't let a condition I was born with impact how they viewed me as a person.

Long story short; You already dealt with this destroying your self confidence for years, and you came out the other side. If you could handle your body doing you wrong in such a personal way, and come out stronger on the other side, then what right does some man have to be the one that takes that all away from you?

There are plenty of people who will love you for who you are, even though you've had this surgery. I promise you.