Bro friend

Hunny, hiking and going to bars isn't mutually exclusive. You sound judgemental AF. Those gays that go "grinding every night" are few and far between (because what places have a big enough nightlife outside of major cities support that), but they're enjoying themselves from what 10pm to 2pm/12am to 4am? They lead lives outside of that. They have jobs, hobbies, hopes, dreams, etc.

You sound like you need a therapist to get over your own internalized traumas. That fact that you don't have any gay friends says a lot more about you than you think, it's the straight girl equivalent of "I'm not like other girls."

I live with four other gay men, one's an amateur chef and lighting designer, one is hiking every other weekend, one is parked at a beach every other day during the summer, one plays with makeup, and in between making bank I have kinky fuckfests and take care of my rare tropical plants.

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