I broke up with my first love tonight, and I hate myself for it.

YOU. DID. NOT. RUIN. HIS. REPUTATION. OR. HIS. CAREER.

He did that when he put his hands on you. Everything that happens to him from this point on is a direct result of HIS actions. You 100% made the right move by calling the cops and having him removed from the property.

Stay strong in your resolve and know that he will never change, this cycle will continue for a very long time, you did the right thing by ending it now.

Completely cut all contact with him and take out a restraining order if you have to. Block him on all social media and block his number. You deserve a lot better than the boy he turned out to be.

I’m so sorry this happened to you and I sincerely wish you the best with dealing with the rough road ahead. Stay strong <3

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