Brother slept with boyfriend

Okay, that puts things in perspective a bit. You're all very young (I'm sure you're sick of hearing that from people), and mistakes and stupidity is all part of growing up as you try to figure out how to navigate the world. Depending on your state, your bf may have committed a crime. And they both majorly fucked up and totally fucked you over. Your bf is, frankly, an ass and a fool. Your brother sucks.

I understand that you are very angry, but don't out him to your family, especially considering he is suicidal. Dump the boyfriend and tell your brother that he messed up, he hurt you, and you don't trust him anymore and he has irreparably damaged your relationship. Tell him to talk to a doctor about a referral to a therapist, possibly tell your parents (unless they don't "believe" in mental illness). Tbh this has nothing to do with your parents so involving them is just being petty and trying to hurt your brother who you are (rightfully) mad at. Just distance yourself from him and focus on yourself and your healing. I'm very sorry this happened.

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