Bryan thinks he’s a Man of Quality™️

I have something to share regarding this post. Back when I was in college there was this girl I really, really had strong feelings for. After a lot of thinking and sleepless nights, I mustered up the strength to tell her how I felt. Obviously she turned me down ( lol ). Reasons for turning me down were many ( just got out of a relationship, not ready to be in relationship, etc etc ).

It was only later I realized that she had her eyes set on ( even dating ) another guy who was my senior and doing better in life than me. Each to their own, heartbroken ( obviously ) I realized that it's pointless to chase love, especially if you're absolutely nothing in life. So I worked on myself became better than I was, spent time on developing myself even got into a good profession on the process, but my career was taking it's sweet time to take off ( thanks Covid-19 it's still in the flipping Hanger )

It was at the lowest point in my life that I met the woman who would go on to be my wife. Then I realized, Love does not need a career or money or looks, and when it comes it works many wonders. Sometime after my engagement I got a call from my close friend ( F ) who I knew in college.

Long story short, she was trying to set up a meeting between that very same girl and myself as that girl's experience with that senior guy didn't end well. In fact it was terrible for her but obviously I couldn't do that now...

My point is that I never cared enough to make these "nice guys finish last" or any other crappy posts for that matter. I don't understand what guys even hope to accomplish by posting such moronic things. I'm no man of quality I don't even claim to ever be "Mr. Perfect" or "Mr. Nice guy". All I know is I'm human and I'm imperfect. What we all need to understand is that Life takes its sweet time to get things in the right order and we all have to grow up, adapt, forgive and move on.

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