Ok you have way too much time on your hands you just picked apart what I’m saying in extreme detail.

Didn't take very much time at all.

Obviously you are offended by literally everything.

Nothing you said nor OP said offended me at all. "Offended" is not even the correct term of use here. To be offended is when you take something to be a personal attack on you because you feel personally insulted either directly or indirectly.

I’m comfortable with myself enough to not have to continue to defend myself to you.

Yeah, you said several comments ago you're "done" yet here you are.

I don’t even know why I’m writing back you are not a nice person

Yes, I assume that's all you're concerned with in life. People being "nice" -- not truthful or helpful. Just "nice."

As if "nice" ever helped anybody grow. As if sitting around with zero pain or resistance ever helped somebody become stronger.