Call an ambulance for my sick elderly father or not?

Personally, I would spare no expense to make sure my father stays alive, or at least has a peaceful comfortable passing with trained nurses equipped to feed him, change his diapers, etc. But to be honest, it would be my mother funding his hospital fees, since I’m still a student…I’m scared to call for help because she is threatening to kick me out and stop my schooling. She said that if I want to pay for his fees, I can drop out and start working but she is NOT going to be paying for him, nor me if I call an ambulance. Idk, I’m just so terrified now. I feel like I should only have to worry about exams and stuff, but now I’m stuck in this horrible situation because my mother is an asshole and I’m enabling her because I’m a coward that doesn’t want to drop out of school to work.

/r/askSingapore Thread Parent