It just seems very strange that no one ever addresses these things and I hope I am not the only one who is annoyed by the current state of the sub.

Literally half the posts on here lately have been "state of the sub" posts.

Here's the breakdown:

There are some legit BDP's. For example, I'm girthy enough that I've almost always had problems with women getting too sore to have long sex sessions, and have even been denied sex completely. I found good advice here about using a specific excellent lube, dilating pussies using multiple fingers before penetration, taking things slowly at first, etc...also found great advice about custom fit condoms for large girth.

But that's maybe about it. It comes down to pain issues, which positions are best to avoid hitting the cervix, where to find good lube/condoms...

At this point, this sub could be summed up in one sticky of 4-5 chapters. No need for anybody to ever post anything ever again. Anything else is not a legitiate BDP.

So what then? Close the sub? It's not a rhetorical question, I honestly don't really have an opinion about it, I don't really care either way. I'm just saying that what's happening is inevitable if you want to keep the sub going. All legitimate problems have been answered.