Can I be Christian and lesbian?

Honestly,I went to a girls school and had a crush on a girl once. My heart would literally skip a beat when I saw her.

I didn't even know her. She was a girl on the volleyball team and my class was near the court and so I would spend a lot of days looking out the window instead of studying. She had short hair and a boyish demeanour but was obviously still a girl,which was unlike a lot of girls in school which caught my eye and then it turned into a crush. This crush lasted a few months to maybe a year.

I don't consider myself bisexual. I just took it for what it was,I was in a school full of girls,all I saw were girls everyday except old male teachers who were not hot, and I was at an age where hormones were starting to act up.

I never acted on those feelings because I didn't know her and also because of religion and the feelings just faded. The next year my classes shifted and I never saw her again and I've never had another crush on a girl after that.

People mistake emotion for love but it's not. Real love is not a feeling. How can you love someone you don't even know? That isn't love,it's just attraction and emotion.

I totally feel like I could have a crush on either a boy or a girl but I wouldn't act on feelings towards girls because of my faith and it's personally not that hard for me. But anyway,I always had more attraction towards guys and boyish looking girls anyway. So I don't know. I can't say. I would just say that everybody has sin in their life,straight people,gay people. But God still loves us and He will help us overcome anything.

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