Eh you might be right, but the fact he was pushing for us to be exclusive, me to meet his family and friends and becoming official implies otherwise. Men who are just trying to spin multiple plates generally don’t act like that. I think he was legitimately just dumb.

In 2019/2020 the rhetoric wasn’t talked about so much whereas it’s constantly talked about now - that’s what I meant. Every podcast by men now is just them talking about any women who is not a virgin is a ran through hoe nobody will want to marry lol.

I understand men’s reasons for not wanting someone with a super high body count (I’m talking like 20+) and honestly I don’t have an issue with it, they’re allowed that preference. It’s the weird attitude behind it that gives me and basically all women the ick.

Your first response to this post was an angry essay with a bunch of capitals. Definitely came across like you were riled up.

What exactly are you saying women claim doesn’t happen in real life? He’s the only man I’ve met IRL who’s been weird about body count. All the other men I know with girlfriends or who date girls don’t care to the extent men on this subreddit do.