Seen your post and I hold no anger towards you but you don't even know out situation.

Me "convincing my gf" was me just telling her the possibilities of our relationship. Even though we're BOTH well off. I added the family part because it's good to add in nuance and the possibilities of having a safety net.

I've gotten so much support in the comments and the DMs and I just want to say that you're lowkey kinda of a prude for your comments on my thread. Using keywords to make me out to be a villain to knee jerk others.

If I have my own place I'm obviously not selling socks on the corner. The internet can be a sad and hateful place because people don't see nuance. Quora is better.

Have a good day, I hope that you stop projecting your insecurities onto other people. I wanted to type this but my thread got locked.