All these comments of 20+ years makes me feel horrible. I’m in a relationship for 2+ years and my girl and I have been growing closer and closer. However, I am coming to a sexual plateau in our relationship. I love her more and more all the time but sometimes I feel like I just like sexual adventure. I haven’t cheated and was never a the type of guy to have a lot of one night stands. But at the same time I feel like a sexual edge is becoming dull...

I don’t think it’s her fault. She is so beautiful, smart and funny. I just think the sharpness of social interaction can become dull by monogamy...Love can be cursed by monogamy..or maybe I’m missing something...