after getting out of an abusive relationship some years ago, I felt an urgent sense that I deeply deserve a wholesome love and I am going to get it because I deserve it. the following summer my friend and i went to an open mic where we saw this man who had a special aura about him. we were both awestruck and decided that we want to be loved by a man like him, a man of colour who grew up in the hood, rough around the edges, protective but could also be soft, vulnerable, and have a deep capacity for love. (one sync that happened during the event: there was a raffle which I won. before they called my name, somehow me and my friend simultaneously "heard" it first, we knew that it would belong to me before it was mine).
fast forward, I met my soulmate recently. we casually joke how I'm a witch since he somehow embodies very specific things among others that I saught for in a lover, even small things I wishfully thought about. he feels he is made for me and his life's purpose is to care for me and make me happy. we are now committed life partners!
(other syncs: one week into talking, he told me that he wouldn't mind marrying me if this is what the future holds. soon after he gets a call from his estranged father he hasn't heard from in years to meet. He dreamt my boyfriend will marry and wanted to let him know he's got some money put up for it.
another is when I shared with him my shroom experience, how I felt an eternal sorrow but also a deep joy and life was connecting me on a path where each moment felt like the right moment i was meant to be in, he experienced déjà vu and was truly shocked by it. He had heard someone tell him all of this before already when this wasn't the case.)
anyways this affirmed for me that we are meant to be connected in this life time. I set intentions without fretting over them and it manifested when I was not actively looking for it. I didn't give much thought to the idea of soulmates before I met mine, but now I trust in divine timing. I also thank my grandpa for helping to will this for me. before he passed one year ago, he told me all the love i want is coming.