You equated people who suffer from BPD with people who have a history of physical abuse. No I didn't, I made a completely accurate analogy. You understood it, I will not repeat it. demonizing them like you're doing is only making things worse Not demonizing, giving a rational warning, hence the analogy to which I was referring. These people need help Of course they need help, from behavioral help professionals, assuming that they even accept such help (it's rare but possible). A partner in a relationship will NEVER, EVER provide this help. Yes, me and my BPD girlfriend get on amazingly well and I'm happy with her. I don't believe you. Borderlines can be hard to manage, as can depressed people [...] Stop it, liar. You know that there is a huge difference. BPD cannot be medicated, depression, bipolar, schizophrenia can. Most psychiatrists won't even treat BPD patients. There is a reason for that. It's worth looking up, for onlookers. Shame on me for [...] Histrionics ignored. What is it like being with an aspie? Is it not better to ask about things on a case by case basis? All aspies are different. It's a spectrum. No. Hush. I won't entertain such tangential bullshit. The answer is axiomatic.