Can’t have sex or date anyone because I don’t want to give blowjobs

I doubt you're the first person to not want to give one. It's nothing to be embarrassed about.

meh. if it was a guy saying he don't want to go down on women (which is the case for some) for all the same reasons, you would just all jump down his throat (for good reasons imho).

now you absolutely should NOT force yourself with anything. my fwb were having some issues with blowjobs too and I absolutely didn't pressured her at all about that and did take care about her pleasure (and she was doing her best too), just communicated to her that's something I like, and she progressively felt more confident trying and doing it, until having no problem with it.

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