I can’t stand Alina. She’s selfish, demeaning, rude & awful. So is her friend Elijah. Caleb should run.

First, I think that Caleb has actually been a gentleman to her. Yes his reaction to her height was wrong, but he was tired and I honestly didn’t think that he expected to be needing to carry her around when he was tired, so it threw him off. However, the next day, he brought her coffee in bed, brought her gifts (which she called trash - no thank you) and he even listened to her worries, and cuddled her immediately after. Even though she was speaking to him in a very disrespectful manner. Then, Alina and Elijah were very mean, rude, saying nasty things about him not being a gentlemen, making him uncomfortable, essentially ganging up on him because he didn’t sleep with Alina. Could you imagine if 2 males were saying that to a female. It would be an uproar. And after all that, Caleb remained cool, and even gave Alina what she wanted - he kissed her. Like come on, Caleb has been treating her so well, but everyone attacks him only because Alina is a little person, so many people are rooting for her. As for your second comment, right after I mentioned that she should be happy he’s interested in her, I said she does deserve to be treated like a queen like any other person, so no I’m not insinuating she doesn’t deserve a good man because she’s little. I’m saying her disability shouldn’t get her any special treatment, if she’s rude I’ll call it out. And Alina herself admitted to wanting a tall, big man so she herself won’t give a little person a chance, so she can’t be a hypocrite either. As much as it sucks to admit, Alina isn’t just a little person, she has a lot of medical needs, and it seems she needs a lot more physical help. Which can be tiring for a partner, so she should acknowledge that he’s helping her out, which she never does. No thank you ever for carrying her, she acts like she’s entitled. I feel like she lacks respect. It feels like because she’s a little person, her parents and surrounding people have always sheltered and spoiled her, so she doesn’t realize that she should be thankful for the people that help her, and it seems like she’s very entitled.

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