I can't attract a fit woman and it is making me severely depressed.

I sort of mentioned this problem in a conversation with a friend and he seemed to get offended(?) when I said I wasn't attracted to fat women. He's not fat and neither is his girlfriend, so I'm not sure what that was about. He just told me to stop being "shallow", which was ironic coming from a guy who's never dated a fat woman himself.

I'm kinda hesitant to bring this up to anyone else because it seems like people get offended by it. Perhaps I'll try bringing it up to someone else sometime.

I guess it's always possible it could be something about how I come across or my personality, but I don't see why that would only apply to fit women. Unless fat women are just willing to go for anything because they're more desperate? I don't know.

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