you can't be lonely, you can't be loveless, you're so pretty

Just out of curiosity, have you ever approached a guy? This may have not even occurred to you, because why would you need to approach? But it may just be a way to find a guy who respects you for more than your looks. I know that there are a lot of guys like me out there who are respectful. The weird thing is, they tend not to approach. Maybe try talking to some guys who won't approach and maybe won't even make eye contact with you. Guys who you normally would just ignore. Just to see what happens. I'm not saying that finding a guy who respects you for more than your looks will solve all of your problems. But it's a start.

Another thing: that guy who you just wanted to be friends with was probably deeply insulted because you're probably the thousandth or so woman who friend-zoned him. Just like you get insulted that guys only like you fir your looks, some guys get insulted because they're constantly getting friend-zoned, and no woman ever wants to be more than friends with them. Think about how that would make you feel. Are you sure he said, "I don't want to be your friend, I want to have sex with you," or "I don't want to be JUST your friend. I want to be more than your friend?" Because there's a gigantic difference. Nevertheless, I'm sorry that he was rude to you.

I've been told many times that I'm quite attractive. Yet I know that I'll die alone because I my personality is not the kind that any woman would want her partner to have. I'm not relationship material, I'm friend material. That's okay. I'm proud of who I am. I would rather die and cease to exist than have a different personality that's appealing to women.

Just be proud to be who you are no matter what. Stay true to yourself and be kind to yourself. Don't let people take advantage of you. Screw other people's opinions

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