I hope the person that's in that relationship also doesn't have a partner that have been cheating on them from the beginning admits that to them and then is also soliciting sex on Craigslist with people he knows and also on subreddits so physical intimacy you provided well but emotional you didn't provide any of it because I knew it when you go around behind someone's back you shatter both even if you're not emotionally connected or intima pte with those you are hooking up with your significant other it's going to be hurt by that fact regardless if they're being told that the relationship is mutually exclusive so don't ever tell me again that you wanted to be engaged that you loved me and that you wanted to be with me your f****** liar