Caught feelings in a Casual Relationship...

Any young lady "studying abroad" has no idea about where their life is going, except to try to latch on to some young well-healed guy who is going to get his degree and eventually get handed the family business or a VP title after going to grad school. If that doesn't sound like you, this might be your answer. If you're some young guy with few aspirations beyond Seattle, she might not be interested in sharing your future but is willing to waste your time for your attention. (Not that Seattle isn't awesome, just that a young lady interested in studying overseas might have different ideas .)
If a guy ain't ready yet, it doesn't matter what lady he's with, it ain't happening. When a lady finds the right guy, she's ready. (Even if she's already with another guy at the time!)

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