Caught my gf that lived with me cheating on me with a guy that apparently got her hooked on heroin. I'm sad.

Been there, done that, I had a ex-gf ruin my life in that way. 4 years ago when I first went to collage a friend drove me to my (ex) GF's place for spring break, she lived in my hometown so it wasnt to odd. When I got there she was still at work, I started cleaning the place and cooking diner for her as she was quite messy and I wanted to surprise her. As I cleaned I found a used condom in the garbage, one that I could not have used since I hadn't been there in over a month due to school.

After confronting her and her friends it turns out while I was at collage she found a guy to do all manners of hard drugs with and sleep with at the same time. This fucked me up beyond belief as I was a young kid in love and stupid. Not long after I found out she got pregnant during this time behind my back and that hurt even more.

To me knowing that that person you loved, who wanted children with you, took drugs and got pregnant behind your back, hurt more than anything I could imagine. I flunked out of collage due to the mental break down and depression. 4-5 years later I am still paying off my college debts because one woman decided to take advantage of a young man who loved her and destroyed his future by playing with his emotions.

I can no longer go to collage and I am thousands of dollars in debt because one woman fucked my mind up in a way I never thought possible.

I hope you can find peace and don't fall down the same path I did. Don't let this woman ruin your life by messing with you emotions and your personal goals. I know you are stronger than I was, I know you can get through this, complete your goals and find real love.

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