So... I really need to make an alt account for post like this. I dont identify as trans but i have a fem side i often like to explore. It normally isolated to makeup outfits etc but in my early 20s i made a fetlife account. I wanted to find someone else like myself to explore with or a cis girl to play with.

The amount of homophobic/transphobic messages I would get was really high but those guys were also REALLY interested in trying to fuck me when i clearly said i wasn’t interested.

I feel Theres often a direct correlation between how much someone is anti (x) thing to how much they want that thing. Like so much im worried im actually a spider.