This is one of the problems I have with transgender activists.

You make these arguments about the people who happen to "pass" (are able to successful deceive and trick others) or about kids who transition really young and don't get make socialisation or whatever.

By making these arguments you (I) implicitly accept that the identies of all of those who don't pass and don't fit these criteria are invalid.(pretty transphobic bro!). And (ii) also forceably misgender butch women who never identified as men (pretty misogonistic bro!).

Unless you really think that gender is the same thing as a person's appearance or what others currently perceive them as don't make arguments that hinge on exactly that!