I would never dream of doing that. Thanks to black mother I know "a child's place" although I am in my late 20s and stay out of my parents relationship because it doesn't concern me. They've been together since December 1991 and married since April 1992 despite different races, nationalities, and opposition so they must have figured out how to make it work without interference. However I will remark that sometimes parents unwittingly involve their children in their business. Years ago when my brother and I were still children livibg in Mainland China with paternal family where he was raised and where he goes back at least twice a year to visit Mama called. She asked if we were enjoying Baba's visit and we said that he was not in China and we hadn't seen him. That got back to Baba who called very angry soon after and he instructed us to tell our mother that he was just out with "auntie". Well what "auntie" though, the aunt who raised him maybe, since he has only two younger brothers from his mother's remarriage?! That couldn't be though because she wasn't with him either. We left it alone though and stayed in our own lane because our grandmother promptly reminded us that we were children and NOT informants from Cheaters like Joey Greco. Children have two parents who are mature adults in functional society and dragging into adult problems only harms them for the selfish gain of parents.