3. Christian asking: what to do about my relationship status?

Christian asking: what to do about my relationship status?

What part of your faith does not allow you to be in a relationship with another man?

Honestly, you're going to have to question your beliefs or learn to adjust them a bit to be realistic and learn to accept yourself. I don't mean suddenly turning against them - compromising your faith, but there are a lot of little things in (any given holy book) which were practical or practiced when it was written, but are not done in society today. This does not mean tossing out your morals and beliefs. Because if you let your religion dominate to the point of being unable to be your own person, it can destroy you. I had an ex who still cannot accept himself as gay (even though his Muslim family does), chose his religion over who he is, and over the past two years he has gotten more bitter and despondent.

You aren't obliged to be in a relationship at all, with anyone, ever. But that will not change your attraction to people (men), and at some point, you will likely want that companionship. There are healthy sex-free relationships.

Best of luck, and sorry for the ramble.

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