Im sorry to hear about your dad :( I hope he get better soon. In my defense my family was able to afford her treatment and my parents never ask me for money but i decided to help plus i was making decent money when i was at school and freelance work. my mother has been cancer free for awhile now almost half a year, we were just put with the unbarring pressure of the health bills. I was only struggling this holiday season because I was not attending school and i was in the process of getting a new job. I spent my entire savings on helping my mom pay her bills of instead of buying gifts for my online friends. I was not complaining about giving gifts to my family more about complaining about gifting for my online friends that bout me steam games sorry for the confusion that's just what will happen when random people try to understand my tweets.