I know he is not available now but when I wasn't available he was gently pushing for more and then at the same time that I started to feel ready for something more he decided to distance himself for pregnancy reasons allegedly but I've been having a hard time accepting that explanation.

When I asked if they're poly or just open he said his wife has had a relationship with someone else but he never said that he's had lasting solid relationships with others, no.

I don't see anyone at the moment. I was seeing someone else when I first met him and they slightly overlapped but then he became the only person I was seeing. I am determined to be solo poly though and date whenever I feel like it. Have a date with a gorgeous ENM woman this Sunday and really excited about that as I feel like I can learn a lot from her.